Humorous vs Caring

The debate of the week goes to:

which kind of guy is more attractive?

is it those who is good in speaking aka humorous?
OR
is it those who is good in action aka caring?

i just randomly thought of this question out of nowhere..
perhaps that is the main reason why i am still single..
no offence to myself and to others..
i just feel so..

i hope to have this kind of discussion with my friends because i would like to know how they perceive this question.

traditionally girls like to hear those sweet sweet comments which means the first type of guy will have the advantage.
i do not know whether the girls are aware that first type of guys always end up giving short term promise..
(no sweeping statement!)
they like to use their sweet mouth to capture the girl's heart and then make full use of the power of control they gained from the girls..
although sometimes we would call it a trap but still girls normally fall for this kind of trap.
it is because of their sweet mouth that girls is usually attracted towards this kind of guy..
it's girl nature, we cant do anything~

as for the other type of guy?
chamness!
girls being attracted to the first type make it worthless for them to put attention on this kind of guy..
and their worthiness usually is seen quietly from besides, meaning if you do not put some effort in discovering their caring-ness then their action is completely in waste!
and before girls put efforts in observing them, their attention is drawn away by the first type..
so what is the chance left for these guys?
i would say this type of guy is very pitiful..
usually this kind of guy is good guy which will think of the future, which will take care of most of the things, which the girl should look into~
yet, this kind of 'good husband' is always maltreated.

so the situation became like this:
the speaking guy is bad(doesnt mean those evil's bad!), but get alot of girl's attention.
the action guy which is normally good(no sweeping statement!), will get carried away~

so ended up:
the bad guy always take things for granted and break promise, but the girls always choose to forgive, which i can proudly say they are in a 'cycle of forgiveness'~
and the good guy always ended up nowhere to be found!



above is just my point of view~
feel free to give opinion~ =)