My Birthday - 323..

No celebration, no present..

Tat summarized my birthday this year..

A lot of frens wished me..

I appreciated that..

Don worry bout me..

I am used to it le..

Not like previously i got lotsa present oso..

Every yr no present oredi make me numb d..

so no worries! haha..

I stil don hv time to count how much wishes i got this yr..

but it is close to 400..

and i am happy to say that..

This yr, i nearly got affected by something..

But in my mind, i was thinking "Today is my birthday! I cant let this precious single day be down too!"

There it goes, I am happy all day long..

So happy to see everyone's wishes..

Got cute 1, funny 1, special 1, lovely 1..

Juz these is enough to make my day..

Spent 2.5 hours to reply all the messages i got..

they wished me in every way: fb, fb msg, sms, call!

Talking bout call..

I wan to specially thanks these 3 ppl to call me personally to wish me happy birthday..

It is these 3 ppl tat make me touched!

1) Tzong Meng

He called me when i was on the way to work..

I am happy to hear his voice..

He is indeed a true fren which i can rely on..

along side him is tristian, so he shun bian wish me oso..

oso thx him as well~

2) Foong Yee

She is my fren during secondary skul..

classmates for 2 or 3 yrs..

Nothing much bout her tat time except that she is a great achiever.

Now she turned to be a pretty girl..

Don put hopes on her! She is owned.. ^^

She called me when i hv lunch.

I never imagined she would called..

But things went out of expectation..

I appreciate u a lot!

3) Yi Jia

Another of my bestie?

Except tat v seldom contacted each other..

She is in Nottingham now studying engineering..

I remembered last time i gave her tuition on Accounts!

Don get any idea on this girl too.. She is oso owned..

Indeed, all 3 ppl tat called me is owned..

She called me just when i was about to sleep.

It's another surprise!

she told me she juz reached home from the preparation of Japanese week-thingy in her college..

so busy de ppl, yet stil take 10 mins time to call me and wish me..

This wish is very heavy-weighted..

^^

2 girl 1 guy..

2 Nottingham 1 TARC..

i wil forever appreciated these 3 frens..

to those who din wish me, don worry, i din blame u all..

u r stil my frens..

there must be reason why u all don wish me..

i und de..

Just take care all my frens~

Here is something which i never post in my facebook which i would like to share wif those ppl hu hv fate to b here and read this:

Tailored Procedure:

"I audited all the wishes. I expect not much ppl will wish me since it's weekdays. But I realised there is a control risk: there is a lot of ppl hu wished me but i wasnt able to reply them on the day itself. The variance(ppl hu wish me compared to last yr) is very big! Therefore, i performed test of detail. I used 100% sampling on test of detail(thx everyone 1 by 1) until midnite. Conclusion: No exception noted. No further work done. Suggest Leave. Leave?! no way! i am going to treasure all the wishes in a corner in my heart!"

Happy birthday to me! ^^

ps. i am happy bout one thing. u r the earliest. thx u!

阿里维丝·孔~

请容许我分享些之前我想分享关于某件事的看法。

因为时间安排的问题，我没法在那时候发表。

那时候考试嘛~

有时间都拿去读书了~

趁现在有些少许的时间，我就来分享分享吧~

无论如何，这只是我个人的看法罢了！

还记得前阵子有位任兄为情自杀吗？

那已是两三个月的事情了……

但那时候造成的轰动是蛮大的。

还上了新闻头条叻~

恰巧的是，那位任兄就住在我家隔壁的花园。

且我和他在面子书上有两位共同的朋友。

在那位任兄去世后，还有人对他的举动含褒贬不一。

褒？则那位任兄非常的有情有义。

贬？则白白的浪费生命。

我呢？

我本身觉得那位任兄有点太过的冲动。

但我非常的理解那位任兄背后的理由。

其实啊~

以现代年轻人的思想去推断。

两人合则在一起，不合则分。

恋人们分分离离的现象满街都是。

又何必为了一朵花而放弃生命？

如果没错的话，那位任兄在采取行动前曾经在面子书上发放一些隐含的讯息，希望朋友们可以关心或阻止他本身。

但有些惟恐天下不乱的人不但没阻止，反而还挑战他这样做。

结果呢？

悲剧发生了。

追根究底，这件事的发生还应归功于“情”字。

情虽然只是一个字，但它所造成的伤害也许是无法估计的。

以这来做例子，一条无辜的生命就这样白白的栽在它之下。

但不要忘记了，我们不能就以这一举例就把“情”归类于不良的东西。

“情”字也可以带给人希望，快乐，甜蜜。

当然也少不了少许的烦恼和愁苦。

言归正题，外界认为分手没什么大不了的事情。

何必要把事情弄成酱严重？

用自杀来解决？

总体来说，对！

是没必要这样做。

自杀解决不了问题，还有点笨！

还会带给活着的人痛苦与悲伤。

有没想过白发人送黑发人的感受？

父母养了那位任兄几十年，到头来得到的只是一具冰冷冷的尸体。

有没想过父母们的失望啊？！？！

显然的，那位任兄做出了让人反感的举动。

但！

以爱情的角度去看的话，

他却达到了至高的境界！

他承诺过要爱那女生爱到死为止。

怎知，到最后却分手收场~

那位任兄承受不了打击，一方面觉得有必要对自己说过的承诺负上责任。

就这样。。。挂了。

很多男生，尤其是现代的男生。

在一起时，甜言蜜语的攻势一下就使得女生招架不住。

比如：“我会永远的爱你/爱你一辈子……”

女生听了？当然是非常顺耳，开心咯~有谁不喜欢听好听的话？

过了一段时间，分手了，说过的承诺呢？

就像沉淀在大海里了。。

像没说过的酱,也不当一回事……

那位任兄却与众不同。

说过的话敢做敢当！

试问下，这世上有多少人可以做到像他这样？

为爱殉情？

在爱情的角度，那位任兄没做错！

错就错在他爱上了一个不够爱他的女生。

如果他遇到了一个爱他的女生，那么他们将会非常的幸福。

因为那位任兄很有责任感。

绝对不会给女生抓到痛脚说他承诺过的事情没实现到。

且我相信那位任兄会全心全意的爱那女生。

可惜，机会没了……

上天堂了……

以免造成误会，我想在这澄清。

我是欣赏他可以酱有责任感。

可以做到说话算话~

而不是他跳楼自杀的事。

最近我身边有些朋友都找到了他们生命中的真命天女。

我希望他们可以好好的去爱。

但要切记！

承诺不能乱给。

不能做的事情就不要死死的答应！

不是说他们会步那位任兄的后尘。

毕竟，承诺给不到，后果非常严重！

切记切记……

ps. jayne! u r the only known non chinese-reader. i'm sry u cant read this! T.T

Occupied Scheduled..

Never before i'm that 'busy' in my life..

The busy refers to business which is outside my house..

I guess i'm too into these activities le..

let's put those illustration into facts..

Mon after work, i rushed back to wangsa for camp meeting..

poor attendance forced the meeting to be cancelled..

Tues work..

Wednesday bek to college for accounting conference meeting..

meeting cancelled last min..

so spirited bek to college oni to be informed that it was cancelled..

I was so freaking down tat time..

hv the urge of killing ppl..

Thurs work..

Fri bek to wangsa again for camp meeting..

as today i got toastmaster's meeting in the morning..

i straight away overnight at my friend's hse..

Sat(today) bek college for TM meeting..

count by hands,

6 days itself i already bek 4 times..

Nex Mon still have to bek again for some chinese society show in college..

Nex Wedn acc conference meeting..

Nex Fri bek to wangsa overnight..

Nex Sat hv to gathered at college around 4.30am.

STILL, 4 out of 6 days went to college..

Ever wonder why i'm so spirited?

There's a reason behind..

I am interested in organising activities..

This is wat i called Passion..

Passion drives..

Seems like this week i'm not having my days..

There is no enjoying moment for me except for hanging out wif frens..

Haiz...

Talking bout today's TM meeting..

I felt tat i improved a lot..

i did speak around 2 mins..

i speak much better than last time..

it's just that my 'erm' in between words shud be reduced..

2 minutes speech i spoke 17 'erm'..

wat a record!

and i think my expression wasnt that good..

my mood was affected when i entered the room..

never prepared for the worst..

I wil continue to improve myself de..

After that, multiple sharing session wif bongyang, miikael, vincent..

Share lotsa things..

this coming weeks, i'm going to occupied myself more often..

I wil fill in all my free times available..

as long as i got things to do, i wil feel useful..

tml, i feel lik sharing sth here..

allow me to do so..

chinese/english?

in consideration..

stay tuned..

Biiang's Birthday Party~

Yest whole day no event..

except for biiang's birthday party..

i nearly cant attend as poor ppl like me no one to fetch..

last last last min oni i found Steph to fetch me..

thx steph for giving me ride!

The party started at 5pm..

but we reached at 7pm..

i reached together wif 38 gang..

steph, yiwei, foong yee, yeevonne, kahern & soonkie!

surprisingly soonkie oso attend le..

she juz came bek from japan!!

basically nothing much to say oso..

i saw lotsa frens around!

since the start of my internship life...

i miss my frens so much..

so hereby hv to thx biiang for having his birthday party to enable me to meet all different gang of frens!

got mehsi gang, college dota gang, group 11 gang, group 13 gang, badminton gang, 38 gang..

wow, unbelievable!

his hse got sing k machine..

everyone busy sing k tat nite oni lo!! haha~

linli stil the best tat nite..

besides that, we played the game played at kahern's house..

blanket game? xD

after tat proceed on wif open present session..

me and 9 other ppl bought him his favourite football club's t-shirt..

and 38 gang bought him boxer!

boxer wif loves on it.. funny la~ xD

and v hv cake cutting ceremony!

everyone take turns to take pic wif him..

besides all tat, me hav fun chit-chatting wif frens around~

around 12am..

yeevonne fetch me bek to my home..

appreciate her as well..

bu zhi bu jue, i'm part of 38 gang le..

wakaka!!

kahern said i hv to pay membership fees lo!

LOL!

well, another full of excitement day..

besides, seeing songher and serene makes me felt happy for them!

their sweetness gave me indication tat they r going well..

of course this brings me up too!

again..

to biiang..

HAPPY BIRTHDAY! ^^

for more photo, see below:

Songher

Soon Kie

Foong Yee

MARCH!

It's the month of March now..

I always feel delightful when it's in March..

perhaps it's my birthday month ba..

and many of my fren borned in march!

tat's y i like March a lot..

and the fact tat i like number 3 so much~

perfect!

first week of march is my best week since i started my internship life..

i'm done wif the previous client..

so i reported back to office and wait for their nex assignment..

morning surprisingly saw feiling and xian!

plus jackson oso over there..

suddenly met up wif all the frens there..

my mood is good!

noon i hv lunch wif tax department interns.

got leyhoong, charlene, phoebe, and laiping!

while taking lrt bek, saw fong yee!

wedn morning met angelina at masjid jamek lrt..

bek tat time met hui jun..

oso at masjid jamek..

thurs met miikael at my working place while having lunch..

fri lunch wif xian, and yeewern..

can u tell me the week isnt good?

i found it superb!

felt lik bek to college le..

everywhere see tarc-ians.. xD

besides, this week i sms-ed one of my fren..

chat xia chat xia then she said something like this:

"treat her good because you care and not only just because want her to be your gf.."

these words made me realised wat i have been forgotten.

previously i hold on to these 'philosophy' so tight..

and i have no idea since when i've been abandoned it..

i think the words reali wakes me up..

i appreciate my fren for notifying me.

waking me up from my blindness..

for now, i will be sit still and see what i can do next..

100 days project still going on..

it wont be abandoned no matter wat or how..

i hope i noe wat i will be doing next..

^^

ps. i'm positive minded!